It Should Be Obvious!
/We discussed what needed to be done and then left the meeting. Our fruitful conversation had reached a detailed and shared understanding of what needed to happen next. We agreed to meet in a week and discuss progress, then parted ways to get to work. A week later, we had both been working from a very different understanding of what we ‘agreed’. How had that happened? Frustratingly, we both had some ‘do over’ to sort it out, and a need to revisit our conversion from a week ago.
As we got into it, we both had some expectations of each other and the work we were doing which had not been well articulated. They seemed obvious! So we’d agreed fervently with each other, without really understanding what we were agreeing to.
When we revisited the conversation, we explored the apparently ‘obvious’ parts in much more detail and reached a better understanding to work from. That was positive, but we could have saved ourselves some time and frustration by exploring our expectations and assumptions in more detail to begin with. The challenge is, that often feels too slow.
Lots of the work I do with leaders is helping them articulate things that ‘should be obvious’ and/or sorting the challenges when progress doesn’t match unspoken expectations.
In a world drowning in information, one of the greatest things a leader can give their team is clarity and the environment to seek it.